As Lenard Marlow so aptly put it, the overwhelming emotions of divorce usually generate “more heat than light,” and can make it seemingly impossible to manage all the many significant decisions you have to make during the divorce process. All that heat makes it easy to slip into the script of divorce by warpath. Don’t do it. Get legal support when it comes to legal matters, get emotional support from your friends and family, get psychological support as needed, and get a good mediator who can guide you through the process collaboratively.